This sexy blonde MILF decided to spend the day in the woods hunting for BBC! She got what she wanted!
I’ve heard about people using the Internet to hook up with other people strictly for sex. I’ve been on a bunch of sites looking for girls and I’ve posted some ads myself.
I haven’t gotten any action yet but I was wondering if there are any tips to make me more successful and any tips on what to do if I actually do hook up with someone?
I don’t have a ton of experience with meeting people online but I’ve certainly hooked up with people from there and know plenty of people that have done it as well. Years ago, in an effort to try to experience everything I possibly can, I did a completely anonymous hookup. I posted an ad, I got a response, I met up with her at a hotel room, we had sex, I took off. I didn’t learn her name, she didn’t learn mine, and that was the end of that. I didn’t like the experience too much…I’m glad I did it so that I got to find out what it feels like, but I really didn’t get anything out of it. I drove home thinking to myself that wanking off at my house would have gotten me the same amount of sexual pleasure!
But that’s just me, and what doesn’t float my boat may float yours. As a man you just have to realise that you have the odds massively stacked against you. There are hundreds if not thousands of men (depending on where you live) that post ads online, and only a handful of women who actually read and respond to them. Make your ad stand out from the rest…include a picture (I’m sure the ads with pics get viewed way more often than the ones without) and make sure it does not have your dick anywhere in it. Girls don’t care about seeing your dick, they want to see your face and personality, so try to include that in the photo somehow. Be smiling, be doing something you enjoy like playing a sport or hiking or something, so they see what kind of person you are. Remember, girls are nervous that you’re a serial killer so anything you can do to show them that you seem like a nice stable guy will make them more apt to send you a message!
In your advert be clear about what you are looking for. Are you looking for girls to be submissive to you? Are you looking for some BDSM activity? Do you just want to watch them strip down to their underwear? Be specific because you may luck out and a girl who is looking for something that matches what you want may be convinced to meet up with you simply because you both want the same thing. If you’re too general they won’t care. Be friendly, use proper grammar, and keep it brief and fun. Little things like this go a long way with women!
If you do happen to get a response to your advert or if you get a response from a message you sent to someone else’s ad, just be respectful and lighthearted about things. Show them that you’re excited in a non-creepy way…“I’m really excited because this is something I’ve never done before!” is a lot better than “My cock is so big and hard and I can’t wait to show it to you and have you stare at it for a little while and then wank off on your face.”!
Other than that, the obvious things all come into play: use condoms, meet in a mutual area (a hotel room is good), tell someone you know and trust where you’re going just in case something goes really wrong, and mutually agree that if things don’t go the way you both are hoping that you can call it a day and there’ll be no hard feelings or yelling or anything!
Dogging is something that is beginning to get more difficult to come across. Lay by dogging is basically dogging on a small street or in a park. It is a lot easier to get caught this way so this is why so many lay by dogging parties and dogging locations are getting harder and harder to come by:
Whenever you are out in the open like you normally are with lay by dogging, you are going to have a lot more chances to have people see you. People will often file complaints if they happen to see any dogging taking place. If this happens enough times the cops will end up shutting down the location entirely.
What to Avoid
It is something that is avoidable if you know how to do it. Many people will try to pull up on the lay by enough where they will have less chance of being seen. You can also try to have somebody that can be a look out so that if and when a car comes by they can warn the others to scatter so that they don’t look so suspicious.
Car parks are very popular locations for doggers. You will also find that if you know about a cleared out location in the woods that you can go there. Many times, a car cannot go to these locations so you may not be able to have sex in your vehicle when you go with this option. Just try to keep it safe and hidden away from others.
When it comes to dogging tips, you will find that there are a few that are a lot more important than others. You will need to make sure that you understand these unspoken rules so that you can make dogging enjoyable for everybody:
You need to make sure that you clean up after yourself whenever you are at a dogging location. If there are a lot of empty condom wrappers and bottles of lubrication left out, then it is a lot more likely to get shut down by the cops.
If you are part of the dogging audience, then make sure that you respect the couple’s personal space. You do not want to get in too close and try to touch or join in unless you are invited.
Whether you are being watched or watching you need to respect the others that are involved. If you are watching, then make sure that you allow other people to see around you. If you are part of the couple, respect your partner’s wishes if it needs to end early.
It is not always appreciated when people show up to dogging sites uninvited. You need to be careful if you simply drive around looking for dogger’s. You may end up watching a couple that doesn’t want to be watched or come in on a private dogging session.
You need to make sure that the location that you are at is an appropriate one. This means no chance of a passerby seeing you.
What is a Gloryhole?
A gloryhole is a opening or hole in a wall, partition or divider about waist high so that a man can pass his cock through from one side to the other so that another man on the other side may service his cock orally (blowjob), anally (fuck) or manually (handjob). Gloryholes are most often associated with blowjobs or oral servicing.
The gloryhole allows for an anonymous sexual experience where the blowjob giver (or bottom) cannot see anything but the cock of the blowjob receiver (or top) and the blowjob receiver just feels the oral attentions of whoever happens to be on the other side of the partition.
Here are some women having anonymous fun at some gloryholes:
Friends with Benefits. Fuck Buddies. No Strings Attached. Call it what you want to but the chances are it is going to end up much more complicated that the simple cut-and-dry set up that any of those names imply so here’a guide to help you:
Find the Right Woman
Some women are simply not wired to function in this type of relationship. Some women are in denial about this and find out when it is too late that they can’t handle it or want more. That is bad news for a guy who really is looking for just sex. You end up looking like a dick for just wanting her for sex even though that it was she said she wanted as well. It’s a lose/lose situation on that one, guys.
So how do you know if you have picked the right woman for an NSA situation? You don’t. But there are some simple rules of engagement that you two can sort out ahead of actually entering into a sexual relationship that can help you decipher her intentions and the probability of you looking like a dick later down the road.
Rules of Engagement
Entering into a NSA situation haphazardly can result in a messy and disastrous combination of hurt feelings, abrupt cessation of sex, or worse yet, a one-sided desire for a relationship. There has to be an agreed upon set of rules that both you and she are comfortable with and committed to prior to you ever hitting the sheets. This may seem like a buzz kill, but it is best to keep your mission clear.
Your rules of engagement should include agreement on several key issues:
- Intention – If either of you want it to even possibly lead to a relationship, that is a pretty good indicator that this NSA situation is going to get complicated quickly.
- Frequency – The greater the frequency of your hook-ups, the greater the possibility that attachments will develop. In an NSA situation, it is better to keep the contact more sporadic and infrequent than getting a regular schedule or seeing each other multiple times a week because that quickly leads to one or both of you having expectations, which again can muddy the waters.
- Openness – If it really is a true NSA set up, seeing other people should be a non-issue, but it comes down to expectations. How do you two proceed if one or the other or both of you begin seriously dating someone else? Does the NSA action continue? Agreement on these elements of the NSA set up can help you avoid disaster.
Sometimes Things Get a Little Complicated
It is likely that one or both of you will develop an attachment issue. The thought is bound to cross your mind at some point, and it will definitely cross hers. Be prepared.
If she brings up going exclusive or converting it to a “real” relationship and you absolutely don’t want that, tell her so. Be honest and direct. Don’t be vague, tell her straight out that although you enjoy the sex, that is really is all you are interested in. Be understanding if that doesn’t work for her and be prepared to walk away. The last thing you want to do is get roped into a situation with expectations of a romantic relationship just because you fear losing your sexual relationship with her.
On the contrary, you may find yourself enjoying her company so much that having her around outside of the bedroom doesn’t seem like such a bad idea. Know that bringing this up with her will probably change the entire dynamic of what you two previously shared. It may go splendidly, with her in agreement and the two of you can saunter off towards coupledom. Or she may tell you that she is not interested. It does happen, guys. If she’s not interested, accept it for what it is. Either way, keep it classy and don’t pressure her for more than she wants to give you.
Ultimately, No Strings Attached relationships are not meant to last forever. You will eventually find someone else with whom you do want to pursue a relationship. Or your intentions towards each other may change and it will go from a strictly hook-up situation to all the complexities of a real relationship. But in the meantime, happy fucking!